A couple of years ago a nurse named Bronnie Ware, who counselled patients in their final 12 weeks, published a book called The Top Five Regrets of the Dying. While the five regrets made the rounds back then, we thought they warranted another look.
We’d argue that avoiding these regrets is not only affordable but good for your personal finances.
1. “I wish I’d had the courage to live a life true to myself, not the life others expected of me.”
Be like Frank Sinatra, and do it your way. So, you’re not a rich, famous and handsome man with your pick of the ladies. That doesn’t mean you can’t pursue and hopefully fulfill your dreams.
Ask that crush on a date, then think of something romantic, creative and frugal to woo them — a milkshake and a sunset worked on me.
Not fulfilled in your current job? Launching a proper job search is a remedy.
Bronnie Ware, the nurse who compiled the list, says unfulfilled wishes were the most common regret among her patients. Those who had that regret “had to die knowing that it was due to choices they had made, or not made.”
2. “I wish I didn’t work so hard.”
Just because you don’t kill yourself on the job front doesn’t mean you’ll be broke.